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You’ll fill out a brief intake so I’m aware of essentials and any safety concerns. I’ll walk you through confidentiality and its limits in simple, straightforward terms.
If we’re meeting online, we’ll take a moment to ensure audio, video, and privacy are in place. If we’re meeting in person, you’ll know exactly how the room is set up so the space feels grounded from the start.
We begin with a short check-in about what brings you in now and what you’re hoping will shift.
Each partner gets uninterrupted space to speak—what hurts, what feels missing, and what you want to be different.
As I listen, I’m tracking the pattern beneath the conflicts so we can name the cycle without blame. I’ll reflect what I notice in clear, simple language and check that it resonates for both of you. Together we begin shaping therapeutic goals.
You won’t be put on trial, expected to defend yourself, or pushed into answers you’re not ready for.
You will be invited to speak honestly and kindly about your experience.
If a charged topic comes up—money, intimacy, in-laws, parenting, phones—we hold it carefully and return to it only when there is enough steadiness between you.
Most couples leave the first session feeling a mix of relief and tiredness. Relief because the pattern finally has a name and neither partner is framed as the problem. Fatigue because touching tender places takes energy.
You may walk out feeling a little softer toward each other, even if nothing is resolved yet. That softening matters. It’s the opening that makes change possible.
You’ll leave with:
• a shared understanding of the cycle you’re caught in
• a simple plan to pause sooner
• one or two dependable ways to reconnect when things escalate
Think of it as a starter kit for repair rather rather than homework.
Before we continue with joint sessions, I meet each partner individually once. These sessions give me a clearer understanding of your stories, histories, and relational patterns.
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